Why are you called "women's
fraternities" and not "sorority?
The words fraternity
and sorority are used interchangeably for women's Greek-letter groups. Fraternity is
derived from the Greek word "phrater," meaning brother, sister, or clan.
"Soro," the source word for sorority, is Latin and means sister. Although many
groups were founded and incorporated as women's fraternities before the word
"sorority" was coined, the term "sorority" is used to distinguish
women's groups from men's groups. (From the NPC
pamphlet "Speaking of Sororities", 1995). See our glossary for other
common Greek terms.
What
about academics - I want to do well in school?
To become a member, you will need
to be in academic good standing with the university and satisfy a minimum GPA.
Each group places a strong emphasis in their member education to help develop
your study skills, time management skills, and academic support. There are
mentor programs and study tables to help you as well. Your main purpose for
going to university is schooling, so event planning takes into account midterms
and course deadlines. Scholarships are offered by each groups
organization, and they help in finding out more about grants, scholarships and
loans provided by the university and private sector.
What
kind of activities do you do during the year?
Each groups meets weekly to plan
& decide chapter activities. There are sisterhood nights where we'll
hang at someone's house or watch movies, or have a chapter dinner. We go
on road trips to visit other chapters, and attend conferences to develop our
leadership skills. We have guest speakers come in and speak to us on academic
resources, time management, women's health, career seminars, and a variety of
other topics. We also participate in several different community service events,
and support other Greeks & U of M clubs with their philanthropic activities.
Last , but certainly not least, we also have mixers with the other women's and
men's groups to get to know each other and have fun - plus formals, dances, and
fundraisers!
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What about
hazing?
All National Panhellenic
Conference women's fraternities DO
NOT condone hazing.
We feel that hazing doesn't promote sisterhood and is demeaning to all
people. U of M women's
fraternities do not condone any
form of hazing whether it would be making a New Member answer the phone a certain way to
making them parade in public in conspicuous attire or costume.
If you feel that you have experienced
hazing, please contact your Alumnae Advisor or the Panhellenic
Adviser for more information.
Isn't Greek
life just wild
parties and stuff?
AGHH! This is a
common MISCONCEPTION - if anything, that is a false as they get! In
reality, there are social functions, but the majority of time is spent on
personal development through education, scholastics, and leadership
development. You are here for school, (right?) but it doesn't mean we
don't like to fun either!
Are
there initiations? What should I expect?
Almost all the Greek
groups have a ceremony to reveal their secrets to their New Members. Each group has
a beautiful ceremony that is uplifting and meaningful for all members, and that no member
need to fear.
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How
much does it cost? Are there payment plans?
There
are fees that every member pays to help in the operation &
activities of the chapter, just like being part of any other
organization. These fees will include dues to the
International Headquarters, the Housing corporation, and the local
chapter. Dues at the U of M women's fraternities range between
$320 to $400 a year. Yes, this seems like a lot of money, but dues
are paid while in university, but you enjoy your membership for a
lifetime!
All groups have payment plans that can work for everyone - no
Daddy's girls here. Just like other university students, about 80%
of fraternity women at U of M work part-time and have student loans
- just like you!
Why
do I pay more in my 1st year than later years?
As a new member, your fees will be higher in your first year for
several onetime only fees - your badge, your fraternity magazine
subscription, a administration fee, plus the local chapter dues and
housing corporation investment payment. This is just like if you
were to start playing a new sport and you had to by the equipment,
pay a registration fee, and go to tournaments - there are always
start up costs. As a new member, your fees will range between $380
to $450 for your 1st year. Remember as noted above, payment plans
are available! After your 1st year, the fees will drop and won't
include these onetime only fees.
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Why do I
pay fees to join a club? I don't need to buy my friends!
Like every
organization, if you want to have activities like exchanges, mixers,
education sessions, road trips, and other events, the costs need to
be covered.
All the U of M women's fraternities have a budget that they work with the chapter
and its officers to make sure that fun times can be had without
"nickel and dimeing" that so many other groups do. There
is accountability with a Treasurer that keeps the books and advisers
that supervise and make sure that the chapter is in sound fiscal
shape. Agreeing to be a member does come with financial obligation,
and there have been many members who have been on payment plans. If
you have further questions, please speak to the Panhellenic Adviser
or your Recruitment Counsellor.
As for feeling that
you are "buying friends", consider it more as an
investment in that
- you are able to
have a connection with women from not just your chapter, but
other Greek women in cities around the world.
- you will also
have a strong academic support group that will not only praise
you when you achieve high grades, but will use mentors and
tutors to help you through the rough times.
- help in
contributing to your community through service projects and
fundraisers.
- you will also
participate in education sessions on time management, women's
health, risk management, financial development, career
advice...the list goes on and on!
- and of course,
you will be able to have fun and do lots of cool stuff to with
men and women from all kinds of different groups around the U of M
- hey enjoy yourself!
True, you don't
have to join an organization to have a social life or raise money
for charity. But you will have a feeling of support, team work, and
personal development that is sisterhood, and there is just nothing
quite like it! JOIN US!
If you or your
parents have further questions, please contact the Panhellenic
Adviser
REGISTER
NOW!
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